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I fight myself every night, and I still haven’t finished every task on my to-do list.

I start Monday strong, refreshed, and motivated to tackle the week’s tasks. By 1:00 pm, I haven’t completed at least two major tasks, and I’m already weary and feeling burnt out. I sit at my desk, staring at my laptop screen while it stares back with its bright, mocking glow. I take a stroll to get my body moving, but I still feel sleepy. The day drags on, and before I know it, it’s Tuesday, and I’m starting the day with unfinished tasks from yesterday.

But I have a life—other aspects that need my attention. I need to call my partner for meaningful conversations that keep us connected, cook meals, be present for family and friends, and refresh my mind with movies, documentaries, or whatever catches my interest. Somehow, I need to fit all these in before Friday.

And then it’s Friday. I try working over the weekend, but life demands my attention, and my body craves rest. Sunday rolls around, and I’m back to mourning my lack of productivity, judging myself for not accomplishing enough the previous week.

The cycle repeats.

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What's Up?

You probably see yourself in my routine.

Sometimes, it feels like adulting comes with an inescapable tiredness. It’s not laziness, hunger, or a lack of essential vitamins—it’s just life. But we must also work to survive. And we must work to eat.

So, what happens when you can do nothing? When guilt from unfinished tasks, exhaustion from needing a break, or sheer inertia weighs you down?

Two scenarios:

1. You want to act, but your body—or life—won’t let you, leaving you stuck in a cycle of guilt and self-hatred.

2. You don’t want to act, but your brain and circumstances demand that you do.

In both cases, you end up doing nothing.

As a tech marketer, freelance writer, and content creator, I live these two scenarios almost every other week.

The frustrating part? I beat myself up for doing nothing. “Why can’t I fix this?” I nag myself, which is unkind to my being.

I’ve learnt that, sometimes, there’s truly nothing you can do.

Productivity hacks often suggest taking a walk, meditating, or taking some vitamins. While helpful, they don’t address the unavoidable reality of being human. You won’t always have the energy or solutions to push through.

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So, what do you do when you can do nothing?

Exist.

It’s the simplest, safest answer.

But as adults with responsibilities, leaving tasks undone only makes them harder to tackle later. Ignoring work when your brain or circumstances demand action can lead to unhealthy habits of procrastination and laziness.

Here’s what I do in these moments when I feel stuck. You might find them helpful too.

1. Forgive Yourself:

It’s easy to spiral into guilt, feeling like you’ll never become the highly skilled person those productivity gurus rave about. But remember, life comes with slow days too. Forgive yourself and your body for not having the drive when you need it most.

2. Drink a Glass of Water (or Soda) and Start Small:

When I feel too drained to function and deadlines loom, I tackle the simplest tasks first. Small wins can build momentum and help you check off items on your to-do list. And yes, soda can provide a quick sugar boost—but always drink more water than soda.

3. Talk to Someone Who Brings You Joy:

We underestimate how uplifting human connections can be. When you’re feeling low, reach out to someone who makes you laugh and feel whole. Don’t have someone like that? Make it a priority to find them.

4. Recognize That Slow Productivity Is Still Productivity:

Not every day will feel like 100%, and that’s okay. Even a 50% day counts. Focus on completing 2-3 tasks—one major and two minor—or three high-priority minor tasks. Balance is key, even on slow days.

Finally, be kind to yourself. Lazy days are a normal part of life. If you can, switch to a brighter, more open space to boost your mood.

Stop fighting yourself when you can do nothing. Just be.

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🔗- 15 Reasons Why Jewish People Are Richer​

I’m not sure how many people will agree with this, but I truly believe that culture and community have a huge impact on how prosperous a society can be. When a culture gets influenced by foreign values or ways, it can struggle to grow compared to those who have held onto their traditions for generations. This doesn’t mean supporting harmful practices just because they’re traditional, but it’s about staying grounded in your roots, even if you adopt new ideas. At the end of the day, you always come back to what truly matters. This is a big part of why Jewish people have built so much wealth and own a significant amount of property in America—community, culture, and credit.

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Want to know what I really think of the people of Atlantis and whether they truly existed? Just reply to this email, and I’ll share my two cents. On a different note, in 100,000 years, this earth will be covered with soil and water again 😌—that’s the beauty of nature.​
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